Bridezilla update

If you read this blog often you might recall instead of using actual names, characters will have an alias. 

Bridezilla has taken the cake/award for being the most dramatic and helpless person I have ever met. 

Despite her divorce in a marriage that lasted four months, she got involved with the ex husband's friend. Things were going good, and before you know it, she was engaged again. 

All was well until the law caught up with boyfriend and his new home was behind bars. 

With wedding bells still in her head, Bridezilla continued to keep her dream for marriage # 2 alive... but you can image only getting collect calls from someone you might not see for sometime can get old. 

She moved on, and found boyfriend #3, got close, and who would guess this boyfriend would get put behind bars last week. 

Throw in the mix her being unemployed and having a 4-year-old to support. 

Who lets their life go down hill so fast?? There is a feeling in my head that no matter what is said... NO WORDS CAN HELP HER UNLESS SHE HELPS HERSELF. 

Someone get Jerry Springer ... I have a show idea. 

Time to breathe

It has been WAY too long since I have posted. 

To all my loyal readers, followers, and commenters: THANK YOU SO MUCH you give me the feed back I need to make it big and you are responsible for my success! 

*** if you are not a follower, you should def be one. 

Now on to business. 

Throughout the course of the week , many dramatic events took place. 

Starting with work. 

I had to have a heart to heart with my supervisor to discuss my options within the company. She then proceeded to email me the day after and in four words made my world go on its side. 

"WE NEED TO TALK" 

Depending on how you interpret  things.. this could be good or bad. I have been told to be an optimist. (we shall see how long that lasts) 

Birthday was good. I went to eat sushi for my birthday dinner with a few friends that cant make it to my big bash next week. It was a great time! Nice to see them after I took a vow to not spend so much time with them. 

Now the drama. 

Working two jobs is really tough on me. I barely have time to sleep and eat. So I have been doing drive- Thur lately, and while picking up dinner the other night... I saw this guy that I used to be interested in. We shall call him bug-a-boo.  

I was very inconspicuous the first time I saw him. Didn't leave my number or tell him when I would see him again. 

Before my friend and I  went out one night last week I went by there again and asked him to come outside so we could talk... and that's when my hell began. 

I believe no woman on this earth has received more texts and calls from a man they didn't know in their entire life. Quite frankly it freaks me out. 

Now I know how guys feel when girls blow up their phones!!!  

How does one get rid of someone like that? Ignoring doesn't do the trick and I am running out of ideas. 

It is unclear to me if I am going through a phase of not wanting to be with someone or that if this guy is a total headcase? ( I am banking on the 2nd choice) 

Finally, at a local pub my friend and I like to hang out in, there was drama to be had. Ex boyfriends, baby mama drama.. you name it. 

I met Mr. R this weekend. And I must say being with him left me on cloud nine a good 4-5 hours.

Mr.R is everything I would want in a man. His touch was gentle and his kisses were so freaking sweet I could have melted.  

I hope to talk to him again, but nothing serious. Friends is the word. 

Now, can anyone tell he how to get rid of a stalker... PLEASE 

Stick a needle in my eye

You know your having a really crappy day when a complete stranger looks at you and says: "What's wrong?"... In a symphatic tone of voice. Did I really look that bad? Guess so.

My mother and I had a bad fight yesterday.... I won't go into the logistics of it but it was pretty much: "you are so selfish fights" as usual. Money being the root of the argument. 

Why is it that money makes people into Satan's siblings? I don't really understand. I think I have a fear of debt so I try to steer clear of spending frivolously and usually just save as much as I can. 

Work was dismal. I got in trouble for having Ed Hardy on my signature. I mean come on, that is the one thing that breaks the monotony from work emails, the signature. Some people choose to go seasonal, while other want to go color oriented. Me, I just wanted to endorse one of my favorite brands. Guess next time I will need a copy write. 

Sheesh, This Monday has not been good and to top it all of I am developing what is called a stye in my right eye. It feels like I have a permanent eyelash in my eye. Guess I am on my way to a hot compress for the rest of the night. Not to mention a new One Tree Hill episode that is coming on in approx 24 minutes. 

I was going to use the 2 day rule with Mr. Echo and call him today, but seeing all my drama that has gone on, I think I will see how I feel tomorrow. 

So please someone ... make use of this title!