She Speaks.... .

Have you been in a situation where you didn't want to speak to someone because you had previous issues with them and you just rather not say anything?

This seemed to be a common result to fights, non-agreements etc. in my life..... Until now.

If you knew anything about me before now you would have known that I was a self-centered, selfish, hard-nosed woman that could do EVERYTHING by herself.

Well turns out that is not true. Communication is KEY and letting things out in the open could quite possibly be the best thing for you.

This morning, after going days without talking to my mother (whom which I live in the same house with) I decided to swallow my pride and talk to her.

Surprisingly, she responded cordially. (shocker) and didn't seem like she wanted me to just go away like often times she does.

Do you have people in your life that could use a talking to??

I don't know how it would make you feel but it does something to my soul :)

All other communication is well and healthy with friends, co-workers and boys.

Now if only I could stop using text messages and facebook as my #1 source of talking...

You keep you mouth shut when you talk to me!

What is it with people who think they can talk to people any ole way??

I tell you what... it didn't go down like that today. Work is really boring and while surfing the net I get a text from "Not S***" that's his name in my phone. (literally)

The text said : "Hi T. I was just thinking about you and thought I would say Hi"

I text back: Oh you were thinking of me huh?

A little back info: We started talking this summer and he had just broke up with his girl. We were not together and one night we had a lil fight. So I went drinking... called him and he told me he was still talking to his Ex.

That was enough for me and I just stopped talking to him.

Now back to the present.

We start texting back and fourth and I basically tell him I am not going to be 2nd to anyone and that's how I felt when we were talking before.

He called me to discuss this further, and ended up being ok until...

I was like "lets just try to hang out more".

He agreed and then says "You hang out with you friends alot...I really don't because I can entertain myself.

I then said: "What is that supposed to mean??"

He accused me of "always" getting mad and told me he didn't call me to fight with me. Needless to say the conversation ended with me not even saying bye, I just hung up.

Was I wrong in telling him how I felt and not letting him treat me like that?? surely not....

I don't know who he thinks he is, no one talks to me that way. !!!