Twenty- Four

Well I must say... I am still freaking tired from the weekend, but I wouldn't have traded it in for anything!!!

Lets start at the beginning... Friends show up at 6:40 ( I told them 30 mins earlier than we actually needed to leave because of the previous time issue we have had. Read the time blog if you don't know what I am talking about) 

We head downtown to get my "cake" ...ok cupcakes and get to the restaurant on time. Here is where it starts: 1. there is a Halloween parade going on so a ton of "one way" streets are closed ...we drive around in circles for like 20 mins trying to get to where we need to go.   2. We have to go on an uphill-one way valet lot. ( yea it was nuts) 

But we get the cakes and we are on our way! 

Dinner was amazing! 10 girlies showed up and we just had a ball. We took pics and laughed. Food was pricey but the experience was priceless!

After that was party time....and boy did we! The pub was nice enough to give me a free bottle of champagne. (which I drank by myself) got tons of free drinks and even money! 

Remember in the previous blog, Mr. R??  Well through random text messaging I invited a ton of people and told them to come to my party. He was on the list and told me he would ask his buddy if he wanted to go. 

Low and behold, him and his friend showed up!!! Now I know I have been a man hater for quite sometime now, and don't get it twisted I still am. But boy did it feel good to have a boy show up just for me.

We hung out all night, took pics together and he bought me drinks... I felt like we were getting comfortable with each other. 

At the end of the night we got dropped off at my house to get my car( there was no way I was going to drive myself) and set off to his house.

I was fully prepared to stay on the couch and just chill. But that is not what happen.... 

We pillow fought, laughed under the covers and looked sweet at each other ( bedhead, morning breath and all) 

We finally got up at 12 and ran errands and then went to lunch ( guess it was a date)! he paid. 

It was the best thing I could have ever asked for...He says he will call/text but I am very content with just leaving things like they are... I guess I am saying if he doesn't call, I wont be upset. 

This birthday is up there in the top 5! 

Next year: Vegas baby! 

Time to breathe

It has been WAY too long since I have posted. 

To all my loyal readers, followers, and commenters: THANK YOU SO MUCH you give me the feed back I need to make it big and you are responsible for my success! 

*** if you are not a follower, you should def be one. 

Now on to business. 

Throughout the course of the week , many dramatic events took place. 

Starting with work. 

I had to have a heart to heart with my supervisor to discuss my options within the company. She then proceeded to email me the day after and in four words made my world go on its side. 

"WE NEED TO TALK" 

Depending on how you interpret  things.. this could be good or bad. I have been told to be an optimist. (we shall see how long that lasts) 

Birthday was good. I went to eat sushi for my birthday dinner with a few friends that cant make it to my big bash next week. It was a great time! Nice to see them after I took a vow to not spend so much time with them. 

Now the drama. 

Working two jobs is really tough on me. I barely have time to sleep and eat. So I have been doing drive- Thur lately, and while picking up dinner the other night... I saw this guy that I used to be interested in. We shall call him bug-a-boo.  

I was very inconspicuous the first time I saw him. Didn't leave my number or tell him when I would see him again. 

Before my friend and I  went out one night last week I went by there again and asked him to come outside so we could talk... and that's when my hell began. 

I believe no woman on this earth has received more texts and calls from a man they didn't know in their entire life. Quite frankly it freaks me out. 

Now I know how guys feel when girls blow up their phones!!!  

How does one get rid of someone like that? Ignoring doesn't do the trick and I am running out of ideas. 

It is unclear to me if I am going through a phase of not wanting to be with someone or that if this guy is a total headcase? ( I am banking on the 2nd choice) 

Finally, at a local pub my friend and I like to hang out in, there was drama to be had. Ex boyfriends, baby mama drama.. you name it. 

I met Mr. R this weekend. And I must say being with him left me on cloud nine a good 4-5 hours.

Mr.R is everything I would want in a man. His touch was gentle and his kisses were so freaking sweet I could have melted.  

I hope to talk to him again, but nothing serious. Friends is the word. 

Now, can anyone tell he how to get rid of a stalker... PLEASE