Follow the Road... See where it leads you

There comes a time in a person's life where things just get good. Not good in one aspect like: great job, or amazing relationship.. but overall contentment.

Post college life is confusing, exhausting and downright hard. The time it takes to come out of the that quarter-life crisis can been anywhere from 1-5 years. Recently, I began feeling like that time is over and boy was it a relief.

So my adult life starts here in 2011. Even this blog has evolved and you can see the changes that have occurred, how life has changed... CRAZY!

My friends are so great! I have an amazing relationship with my family and a man that makes my world a lil better everyday.

I know this post is not very ambiguous like my others have been recently, but that was inevitable. I decided to let you all into my life just a lil bit.

So bring it on 2011! I am ready to do this thing they call life!

Sex In Oklahoma City

So today's topic is not sex...( get your mind out of the gutter). I would like to bring up the M- word. I know its forbidden for some (especially guys) but marriage is supposedly a good thing.

This weekend while watching "Sex in the City: The Movie"  I guess you could say I found myself bewildered. The movie portrayed being in a relationship with a man for 10+ years without the thought of being engaged or married is normal? On a good note they also advocated being their for your girls no matter what (which I do agree with). 

I guess what I am trying to figure out is how long is "long enough" before you start to wonder if marriage is even an option. 

Now I know what the argument will be. "Only God knows when the right time will be" or "You will just know when you are ready".  All that sounds great and perfect, but there is a thing I like to call reality and uncertainty that starts to set in and before you know it you have broken it off and die a lonely, non- married woman. 

OK, OK, so that may be way left field. But it may be true. In the book I am reading: The New Eve it clearly states that some people are just not made to be married. But if it is really in your heart to be married and have kids, chances are you will. 

I guess I am just conflicted because I am in that stage in which people call "contentment". Just the whatever attitude is what I possess for the time being. If something comes along I will not say no, but I am not actively looking. 

This idea is so opposite from friends who in their spare time look at wedding dresses and subscribe to E harmony. 

I can only hope that my transition from contentment to wanting to be with someone will be smooth. 

But to pass the time until then.... can we just be friends ?... ( lamest way to get out of a relationship BTW)